as my 7.1 long term informations where older i looked it up, looks like there is a catch to that (at least now)
only older units (presumably kernel 3.10, mostly 2015 units and older) will get one more year up to 6/2025, namely the ds3615xs, the other commonly used types like 3617 or 3622 will loose update support 6/2024 and will have to be updated to 7.2 (if security updates are important)
https://kb.synology.com/en-global/WP/Synology_Security_White_Paper/3
looks like i will have to upgrade my dva1622 in the next 3 month to 7.2
there was also a "Synology E10G18-T1" with that performance problem so it might stretch to more nic's or its something different
but if exchanging the driver on the already running system clears the speed problem then it would be clearly that issue
edit: i looked up the syno nic, its a "newer" model, not tehuti bsed, its marvell aquantia (aka AQtion Aquantia AQC) and the driver module to look for is "atlantic.ko", sadly "modinfo" is not part of dsm but you would see driver realted information when the driver is loaded ( dmesg |grep atlantic)
also a sign of a original driver would be if its signed by synology, you could check this by looking in raw/hex at the end of the driver
"xxd /lib/modules/8021q.ko" for one that usually is still original and "xxd /lib/modules/atlantic.ko"
you will see "Module signature appended" at the very end of the driver when its a driver provided by synology
forgot to mention it but my test system was using arc loader, as most loaders have there own driver set its worth checking the driver version and comparing to the original driver from synology (if there is one), in some cases it might not work using synology's drivers as there might not cover other oem versions of nic's, seen that with ixgbe drivers on 6.2 (but also tehuti and other intel drivers and realtek 2.5G nic driver)
so it might not work to "downgrade" the driver to syno's original in some cases, that might result in a non working nic, it might find the device but if the phy chip is not supported the it will not show any connection or the driver might not load at all
so in case of experiments like that its handy to keep a 2nd nic inside that can be used if the 10G nic fails to work after changing the driver